HEALING THE WOUND OF HUMILIATION
HEALING THE WOUND OF HUMILIATION
INNER HURT OF HUMILIATION
If you have suffered or are suffering from this wounding, you are not alone.
This wounding may feel like you will never get out of the pit.
But I declare now that you will heal, and you will RISE!
I would like to begin by sharing a prayer with you.
DEAR LORD,
I lift the one reading this message who needs prayer. Dear God, thank you that you are with this precious soul who is hurting and needs support and compassion. God, you are a good GOD! You saw what happened Oh God. You know the deception and the lies. You know the abuse. You saw it all. You are not pleased with this humiliation tactic. Thank you, Jesus. We ask that you be near this one who knows the sting of humiliation. Thank you that you Shepard this precious one into your Healing and Protective Fold. Thank you that you heal this wound. Thank you that you are faithful to do it. Thank you that you know how to heal every detail of this wound, and bring comfort, care, and compassion. You hold and heal the woundings of those who have been hurt and left confused. You are not a God that ignores or abandons the suffering who call upon our name. You are a GOD that is a light, a strong tower, and a shield of protection. You are Jehovah Rapha, the Mighty Healer. We praise you for the healing and resurrection that you are doing right now in this precious soul. Thank you GOD, that you finish what you start. In your mighty name we pray, Jesus Christ. AMEN.
If you are still reading, this article might just be for you. I wish no one would ever need to heal from this awful wound, but unfortunately we live in a fallen world of sin. Abuse is sin. It is not of God. It is a tactic the enemy. God wants to warmly love you, set you free and empower you, so you can walk confidently in who He has made you to be.
It is important to feel the pain associated with this wounding so you can be healed and set free from the lies that this wound has created. All of the wounded parts of you are safe with the LORD.
This relational wound arises when someone treats you as inferior, flawed, and stupid, leading to feelings of embarrassment, inadequacy and lack of value. It can result in low self-esteem, self-doubt, and fear of expressing yourself authentically.
If your identity is not rooted firmly in Christ Jesus and you don’t yet know who you truly are as the LORD has made you, you will most likely linger in the aftermath of this wounding. You may suffer from:
A questioning of reality
Painful emotions associated with
lies that you are somehow unlovable,
unworthy of respect, and that you don’t really matter.
It can leave you feeling totally unsafe, unsure of yourself, second-guessing yourself all the time, and perhaps asking yourself, “What is wrong with me?”
You may have also started to believe what this person is saying/or has said to you. God wants to pull you up and out of it for good!
This wound may debilitate you. You are wondering - “What is going on here? Why am I always feeling so inferior in the presence of this person?” You most likely have many emotions that need processing due to this wounding.
You may second-guess yourself. You may also be afraid to enter into new relationships or communities. Isolation can easily set in as a way to protect yourself. But you need healthy healing companions and Jesus Christ to be set free.
You’re not alone in this humiliation wound. I experienced this kind of abuse for years by people who claimed they loved me. It was confusing, debilitating and disempowering in every way. I couldn’t understand how to stop the cycle. I tried many self-healing modalities. But when I encountered Jesus Christ, that is when these crazy-making dynamics stopped. And that is because these relational dynamics are the result of unhealed trauma in the abuser, and they are also spiritual in nature.
This wound of humiliation is the result of being around a person, people or a community, that is fear-based and shame-based, and in these types of situations it is not only relational - there is also demonic influence.
Now before you stop reading or become afraid, let me explain. Humiliation is a tactic of Satan. Satan is real, and so is Jesus Christ. If you know the LORD, then the veil has been lifted. If you do not yet know the LORD, it’s important to know the LORD and give your life to Him because not only will you be given freedom from sin and death by your faith in Christ, you will also be given the keys to your healing and freedom from the wound of humiliation. Demons are real and they are part of the kingdom of darkness, with an agenda to harm human beings. When a human being has been traumatized and the wounding goes unhealed by the LORD, demons (which are unclean, foul spirits within the kingdom of darkness) enter a human and live within that person. These demons wreak havoc in a person and can even control the behaviors and actions of a person. That is why a person who abuses might say, “I don’t know how it happened, something took me over…” This is a demon. And that is why I say here that this is spiritual in nature. This is why we all need Jesus Christ. We all can be used as a vessel of destruction to hurt and harm others. That is why when you are healing from these woundings such as humiliation and other woundings I discuss here, you can only be set free by the power and presence of JESUS CHRIST. Jesus Christ breaks the spiritual bondage in the supernatural realm.
I could not have been healed and delivered from the humiliation wound & identity bondage fully without Jesus Christ.
This wound creates many issues of mistrust, fear of trusting, and possibly paranoia and hyper-vigilance.
When someone humiliates you it is deeply painful. The wound may cut so deep into your soul that you can barely believe what is even happening. Can you relate? It can take your breath away, your life away, your very sense of self away.
Many emotions may arise to the surface: anger, fear, sadness, confusion and despair. If you do not know who you are and are not solid in your own identity in Christ, the enemy will continue to attack this wound until you cast this wound to the LORD for deep inner healing.
A humiliation wound is an emotional scar resulting from experiences where a person feels deeply embarrassed, degraded, or shamed.
These experiences can be overt, like being publicly ridiculed, or more subtle, such as being consistently overlooked or dismissed.
The wound can be triggered by a variety of factors, including parental criticism, bullying, discrimination, or even feeling inadequate in comparison to others.
If you have experienced this wound of humiliation you may suffer from the following issues:
Low self-esteem: You may struggle with feelings of worthlessness and self-doubt.
Fear of judgment: You may be highly sensitive to criticism and worry about what others think of you.
People-pleasing: You may prioritize pleasing others and suppressing your own needs and desires, to avoid the potential of further humiliation abuse.
Difficulties with intimacy: You may notice that it is hard to form close, healthy relationships because the fear of vulnerability and rejection is high.
Emotional Numbing or Escapism: You may have developed coping mechanisms like substance abuse or excessive work to avoid the pain associated with the wound.
Spiritually: This wounding may result in not feeling safe to share yourself with God and a fear of being weak, too needy, or holding back in your authentic expression with God. You may not know what you feel emotionally, but you just feel off. You may be afraid to share yourself with others and/or with God, not quite knowing what to say most of the time, or how to share yourself vulnerably with God when you need Him most.
To heal this wounding, there are some things you can do to support yourself AND God wants to be part of your healing process to freedom!
Self-compassion: Be kind and compassionate with yourself as you are healing, because God is so loving and kind with you and He knows that you need caring support at this time in your life while healing and growing anew.
Notice negative thinking patterns: Become aware of the lies and negative thoughts you are believing about yourself. As you embrace deep healing and deliverance with the LORD, you will come to know who you truly are as God made you, and your true self will shine through.
Set healthy boundaries: Establish limits in relationships and say no where you sense you are not respected or honored with care. Pray in the Spirit for revelation about this person who is abusing you with the humiliation tactic. Do not take what they say about you seriously in any way. Reject the word curse being spoken over you. Come to know who you are as God uniquely made you.
Seek support: Talk to a therapist, counselor, coach or join a support group that can provide a safe space to heal, grow and rise into who you really are. I offer 1:1 and Group Programs for Women.
Be Healed, Receive Deliverance, Be Set Free and Forgive: As you embrace deep soul healing and deliverance from demonic oppression, and you walk with the LORD and healthy community to become solid and secure in your true identity, bullies and abusers will no longer have access to you. You will know who you are as God made you. The LORD will guide you to forgive those who have contributed to the humiliation wound, as well as other woundings. There is real hope for healing and freedom as you embrace deep inner healing and deliverance and support in healthy community who understands these abuses and the spiritual battle.
WE HEAL TOGETHER
HEAL WITH THE LORD He will set you free TO LIVE WHOLE AND WITH JOY!
Recognize the wound.
Understand its origins.
Actively work towards healing with the LORD and HEALTHY OTHERS so you can be set free!
You are so precious to God and He can heal every wound
HOPE FOR HEALING AND FREEDOM
If you need support, I offer 1:1 Counseling, Trauma Healing Group Support, and Inner Healing and Deliverance Ministry
so you can be supported out of this darkness and into Gods Light.
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