This is a 12-Week Course designed to equip you for Healthy Loving Relating and Life-Long Relationships, with Jesus in the Middle. Biblically and Relationally sound.
This is for you if you want to:
Strengthen relating and relationship with others, yourself, and with Jesus, the Holy Spirit, our Heavenly Father
Effectively express yourself, listen to others with skill, and practice together in a safe and Christ-Centered community
Come into agreement with how God intends your family to relate, connect, and love one another
Communicate from a base of faith, security, maturity, responsibility, healthy love and compassion
Love others well, and be loved well
Be a safe and resourced person for others
Pray in the Spirit to be set free from generational strongholds
Offer effective support to others when they are in need & inspire reciprocity
Walk confidently in the Joy of the Lord!
Cultivate mutual care, respect and healthy love with your members of your family and community
Have you been hurt in relationships and now find it hard to trust others with your heart?
Are you praying for Resotration in your current relationships, seeking more peace & joy?
Are you seeking to create more fulfullment and satisfaction in your relationships?
You are invited to a 12-Week Course, that will shift the way you experience relating and connection.
Without a vulnerable relationship with Jesus Christ and others, we do not do well.
With it, life is better. It’s as simple as that.
During this course I will teach you basic, easy to learn, yet effective tools and understandings to apply in your relational life. You can become fully resourced in your relationships ~ starting with the relationship you have with Jesus Christ.
If you feel called to experience more confidence, peace and joy in relationships - then this course is a perfect fit for you.
We will meet on Zoom weekly for 12-Weeks. An on-line portal gives you access to learning videos and practical put-to-use PDF’s to support you every step of the way. If I can learn these tools and support my relational life, you can too! You have lifetime access once you enroll. A Healthy Loving Relating Community can support you also, well after the course is over. In-person retreats are now being organized, as well. Healthy Loving Relating on a solid foundation of the ministry of Jesus Christ.
I’m very passionate about sharing this journey with you. I look forward to supporting you and others as you actively and purposefully create Healthy Loving Relationships that last, enduring the tough times, protecting the dignity of loving well as God intends. No longer relating from your inner wounds, but from the New Creation in Christ God has made you to be.
If you’re ready to enjoy biblically and relationally sound relationships…
If you’re ready to let go of the blame and shame cycles and enjoy healthy relating in life…
If you’re ready to see and be seen, hear and be heard, honor and be honored, cultivating relationship restoration…
If you’re ready to let go of the past, and love the way God intends…
Even if you’re not sure how it’s possible…
And you wonder how it can happen…
There are relationship understandings that help us all love well, and learn how to be loved well in return…
If you’re feeling frustrated, insecure and doubtful about Healthy Loving Relationship…
And you know that Jesus has much more for you…
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
In this world that is God-less, moving fast, often unkind, and aims to steer us far away from Christ…
We stand strong in healthy loving relating with jesus in the middle!
I stood where you stand now. My relationships used to be full of confusing and painful. Always triggered, not knowing how to express myself effectively and maturely. I felt silenced and unexpressed. I was like a wounded little child, not knowing how effective and wise communication sounded. I was confused, lonely and frustrated. I didn’t know how to express or listen well. Isolation seemed to be my best option. But then one day I made a bold declaration that I would learn how to communicate differently, and learn how to what Romans 12:12 tells us, “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, and be constant in prayer.” I wanted to learn how to be authentic, sincere, patient and truly loving. I wanted to be set free from fear, shame, bitterness, resentment and un-forgiveness.
I used to be confused about relating, but after much learning and practice I no longer feel afraid or confused, but instead faithful and clear as God guides me. I know when I need to bring it to God to fight the battle for me, and I know when I need to say something. I know when I need to listen well, and I know when I need to pray more bringing it to God for revelation and the way through. Learning how to listen with the heart of our Heavenly Father changed my life, and I want this for you too!
After working for over 10 years with people from various walks of life, I have witnessed families re-unite a new with these understandings. My own family has been re-connected after 45 years of disconnect, fear and anger. It’s not always easy, but now there is a language of connection that brings us closer instead of further away. There is hope and healing with Healthy Loving Relating when Jesus Christ is our foundation.
The cause of relational suffering, hurting and heartbreak is rooted in lack of real connection. We are hurt deeply in poor relating at early ages, and often do not take the time to learn how to connect better. But it’s never too late! This course and community will be a healing companion to your own inner healing journey, while teaching you the ins and outs of healthy loving parenting, loving, relating and bonding.
I want to invite you to join me in creating the shift toward Healthy Loving Relating in the Kingdom of God, so together we can love people into the arms of Jesus while ensuring that our family and communities are relationally supported.
If you feel called to experience more safety and love, more healthy relating in your life, I want to warmly welcome you to this 12-Week Course!
Come join me and others from all over the globe for a special time together.
Trauma has created so much isolation.
We do not need to keep suffering alone.
God designed us to communicate and connection with healthy love, as He loves each one of us.
Healthy Loving Relationship can grow in our families. The keys to connectedness help us grow together as a community. We are here to help one another make this shift from dysfunctional relating to Healthy Loving Relating. We need one another to do this, and Jesus is with us every step of the way.
details for course
We meet 12 mondays / september 18 - December 11 on Zoom
Monday Nights @ 5-7PM (PST)
Full Teaching Portal on-line with videos and learning manuals
you will have lifetime access to the learning modules so you can continue learning and referencing the information
"Somewhere in the lives of all successfully loving people, there was a person or persons who reached inside and connected with them. Someone who got to the heart, who bonded. And not for some brief event or interchange, but consistently and over a period of time. Someone who got there and stayed there. The connection is what brings us the elements of what we need." ~ Dr. John Townsend
What is Healthy Loving Relating with Jesus in the Middle?
It is a biblically and relationally sound approach to creating relational security in the family, friendship and fellowship. Based on God’s Word, HLR teaches you how to responsibly express and listen, creating a secure foundation when relating with others and cultivating emotional and spiritual security in relationships.
It is also an approach to healing that is trauma-informed, preparing families to come out of survival and into living, loving in the Spirit, while firmly grounded on the Word of God.
Peter’s teaching that we bring God’s grace to one another: “As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”
God loves us every day, in more than one way, and He designed things so that we are to be connected to Him directly, and by Him indirectly, through people. That is normal and good. If you experience only a need for God and no need to open up to people, you will benefit from this course, and it will help you relate to others the way the Holy Bible teaches. Here is a safe place for your to grow spiritually and emotionally. We take time to connect with one another no matter what is going on in the group, not only as a service to one another in our community course, but as a way to model how to support loved ones at home, helping individuals walk through devastation and hardship.
Sometimes people feel they are too much of a burden, or they don’t know how to share vulnerably, or they just feel afraid to express themselves. This course will give you the time and space to be supported and to support others, using the skills and tools you are learning through first-hand experiences and sharings. This course will both help you along your own inner healing and in the building of your skill-set when loving and being loved within your family, friends and fellowship communities.
Connecting must come from the heart.
Ephesians 4:25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another.
You will learn
how to express with confidence, skill and wisdom
how to responsively listen with respect, discernment and humility
how to repair after disconnect or arguments
practical relating Skills to remain in connection while old wounds are getting triggered
how to Fortify your Voice, identity and authority in jesus christ within relationship
how to journal for your own inner healing and create a healthy relationship with yourself
how to emotionally Support yourself and others while in pain
tips on how to re-connect to your children after you were the one who hurt your child out of your own traumatized patterns
how to own your own experience without shame or blame / communicate with grace
What others have experienced
Our On-Line Meeting Schedule
september 18 @ 5-7PM (PST)
september 25 @ 5-7PM (PST)
october 9 @ 5-7PM (PST)
october 16 @ 5-7PM (PST)
october 23 @ 5-7PM (PST)
october 30 @ 5-7PM (PST)
november 6 @ 5-7PM (PST)
november 13 @ 5-7PM (PST)
november 20 @ 5-7pm (Pst)
november 27 @ 5-7pm (pst)
december 4 @ 5-7pm (pst)
december 11 @ 5-7pm (pst)
12-Week Course
3 payments of $160
I look forward to connecting with you during this course, within a Healthy Loving Relating Community!